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has there been any case of underage smut rpers or there of age rp partners getting in trouble for it ?

Elaborate-- by underage smut do you mean roleplaying with someone that is underage or characters that are underage? The answer is yes for both. 

roleplayingconfessionsfromrpers :

hey guys, i just wanted to pop in and give a little psa about blog descriptions on mobile– more specifically LINKS in mobile descriptions. if you’re a roleplaying blog that has link to your rules/about/etc in your description, it HAS to be a link to a tag or a post on your blog. it cannot be a page. pages, at least in my experience, do not work on mobile, therefore it is pretty much impossible to access and read them. 

in short, want to help mobile users? include a link to a tag or a specific post with your rules/about/etc in your description. 

hey guys, i just wanted to pop in and give a little psa about blog descriptions on mobile-- more specifically LINKS in mobile descriptions. if you’re a roleplaying blog that has link to your rules/about/etc in your description, it HAS to be a link to a tag or a post on your blog. it cannot be a page. pages, at least in my experience, do not work on mobile, therefore it is pretty much impossible to access and read them. 

in short, want to help mobile users? include a link to a tag or a specific post with your rules/about/etc in your description. 

stephysource :

here is something i haven’t seen people talk about.

RESPECTING YOUR DUPLICATES

no one is forcing you to interact with them, or follow them or even look at them. there is a blacklist for a reason if you don’t want to see them around. but people need to get rid of the idea that THEY own the character, and no one else can play as them. get rid of that mentality that no one else is allowed to have that muse that YOU DIDN’T CREATE, and that anyone who has that muse should be chased away because they aren’t you. that makes you an asshole quite honestly.

unless it’s your OWN ORIGINAL CHARACTER, you cannot tell people not to write a muse. it’s okay to be uncomfortable with duplicates, i think we all get a little anxious or nervous about them, but it is NOT okay to try and chase them all out. vagueing about them, sending them hate and telling them they’re not good at what they do? that’s fucked up. so stop. you do not own that canon character you’re playing and you should stop trying to chase them all away and acting like you’re the best of the best. everyone brings something to the table.

so just. the moral of the message is RESPECT THAT DUPLICATES EXIST AND QUIT TRYING TO CHASE THEM AWAY BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU SHOULD BE THE ONLY ONE.

that is all.

If you don't want to rp fights then why the fuck would you pick a warrior muse!?

I don't feel like a part of the suggestions fandom. They're all good friends with each other and I just don't fit in. I love my blog but they make me regret making it sometimes.

Hey, hot tip-off here. If you send sexual anons to a muse and the muse says 'no', /that's when you stop/. Unless you have an OOC agreement with the other mun that says continuing is okay, /you STOP/. You don't keep sending the anons claiming you're forcing their muse into sex. Yes it's just a muse, but there's a real person behind that muse and you are harassing them. Take no for an answer.

I regret becoming close with my long time rp partner. Every time I make new friends or new partners they get jealous. Because of the ooc drama I have no interest in the fandom anymore. Nor do I look at their muse the same way. I don't even want to write with them.

Honestly im tired of the rp community and am considering quitting it for good and just writing fanfics because its way too toxic and people make drama over the most stupid reasons. I didnt want to because i have good friends here but honestly its tiring my mental health out and i'd rather be fine than deal with this and try again. Im just plain tired of everything and its not worth it for the very small attention my muse receives too.

I hate it when I can tell someone isn't interested in writing with me anymore, but they're hanging on to "be nice" or because they "feel bad" or whatever.

I love fandoms. Fandoms are great... the people in fandoms however make me die on the inside... Especially large rp fandoms. I've turned my back on those fandoms rp blogs and have now started reinvesting my time in anime and manga; then seeking out those blogs.

My character has tortured people and she constantly denies it, even tho, I, the mun knows what she did is torture. I wish people would understand the difference of my muse refusing to acknowledge something and me acknowledging it.

People have to realize we are all humans here and we all make mistakes. If the person tries to apolgize and move on the most logical thing you could do would be to leave them alone and let them try again. After all humans have the possibility of learning with their errors. I find amazing this mob mentality and how a  group of roleplayers can make life a living hell for a single roleplayer just because of a small mistake. And insult the hell out of them and then turn around and pretend to be saints.

Shout-out to @ex-mercenary for giving me the best roleplaying experience I have ever had in my almost ten years of writing.

What do you think I should do if I feel like my character is being treated in a sexist way by the RP, but whenever I try to bring up the issues (or any issue at all with the RP) with people, they shut down, seemingly unable to understand that I have feelings and not wanting me to "live in the past", instead hyperfocused on the matter at hand as if it isn't informed by the past, and as if, if they solve it, my emotional pain will go away?

 Honestly, if you’ve tried numerous times to address the issues with your partner(s) and they keep brushing you off... maybe you should drop them. Even if the issues you’re bringing up aren’t regarding sexism. If they aren’t respecting your concerns or even willing to discuss them, they’re bad business. 

But, if you want to try and salvage your relationship, here’s some advice;

1. Tell them how you feel in an assertive way. Use “I” statements. ( “When you do ____, it makes me feel _____. What I need is ______. I am sharing this with you because _______. )

2. Set and maintain boundaries. Make it clear what your boundaries are. Let them know that treating your character in a sexist manner AND not respecting concerns is very off-putting and you will not stand for it.  

MOST IMPORTANTLY, focus on taking care of yourself. If for any reason you are uncomfortable and under emotional duress because of something your partner is doing, walk away. Especially if they show no desire to change. Your health and happiness come first. Roleplaying is a hobby. For fun. Don’t let someone ruin that fun for you.

This might be the wrong place to ask this but I'm at a loss. Do you know anyone who makes icons and promo graphics? For free?

I can do promo graphics, just send me an IM or message me off anon

dear-indies also has a list of helpful people that are willing to make things like graphics and icons on request.

I really get sick of attention-seeking shippers who think they can just trample others underfoot. As soon as someone else starts interacting with a muse they currently want the D from, they start the exact same interaction with them only BIGGER and LOUDER so they demand all the attention and the 'rival' is pushed out of the way. Fuck off, Madam Thirsty, and let other RPers have something too.