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  • theshitpostcalligrapher
    18.05.2022 - 2 hours ago

    im working on the sticker with the bulk barn scoop and it’s occurred to me that yogurt covered pretzels may not be everyone’s GOAT snack, I’m gonna do three snack variants with the scoop what should the other snacks be? 

    #canada#canadian #hopefuly yall canadians are awake i need options im considering chocolate almonds #it can't be one of those chocolate and caramel popcorn cluster monstrosities cuz they won't read well as a little sticker #food
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  • cluster-b-culture-is
    18.05.2022 - 3 hours ago

    bpd culture is screenshotting everything your fp says that you find sweet just because, so now you have a gallery with over 1000 screenshots

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  • elceeu2morrow
    18.05.2022 - 4 hours ago

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    #a real mood buster #and he had two stellar shows to start the latam leg #this sucks for louis and the band and the fand that are following the rules #the venue worker or promoter or whoever has been on stage for awhile now #will louis come back and do the rest of the show? or cut something out? #ltwt2022 santiago3 #5.17.22 #what a cluster f*ck #mine
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  • cluster-b-culture-is
    18.05.2022 - 4 hours ago

    Hey y'all, setting the queue to 10 posts a day as at 6 posts a day, the queue was over a month long, and at 8, it was still only just under. In the mean time, enjoy more cluster b stuff I guess?

    #not cluster b culture #Mod Reef#not queued #there's 196 posts in the queue right now #i am shocked and #frankly#bamboozled and #if you could ever believe it #utterly and incomprehensibly stunned #by the amount y'all seem to enjoy this blog
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  • cluster-b-culture-is
    18.05.2022 - 4 hours ago

    cluster b culture is having a hard time discerning what’s an actual part of your personality and what you’re just latching onto to hav a sense of self and feel special

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  • ragecor3
    18.05.2022 - 5 hours ago

    No conozco otra manera de relacionarme más allá del "matar o morir".

    Toda mi vida ha sido un ciclo entre el "se tan bueno que no les convenga traicionarte" o "se tan intimidante que no les convenga tenerte en su contra"

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  • jewishsuperfam
    18.05.2022 - 5 hours ago

    ........okay but who's gonna write a the wilds sense8 au

    #i simply think the unsinkable 8 should be in a cluster together #i think that would be Fun
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  • cluster-b-culture-is
    18.05.2022 - 5 hours ago

    question : is splitting always "youre evil and i despise you now" or can it be "everything is ruined, you never cared, you mean nothing to me" instead ? like instead of the feelings shifting to hatred they shift more towards sorta,,, apathy and emptiness (+ some hurt and self-hatred for spice)

    i dont think of the ppl themselves as bad, rather the relationship and their connection to me

    Splitting can be different for everyone, and there's different types of splitting for different disorders (splitting is different for NPD is different for BPD is different for ScPD, as example). I'd say splitting could absolutely be what you're describing

    #not cluster b culture #Mod Reef#anonymous#not queued
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  • violentviolette
    18.05.2022 - 5 hours ago

    i have a friend who’s been questioning if they also have aspd along with being autistic, and have been doing lots of research but haven’t found much, most being the differences and similarities between the two. i was wondering if you know of any accounts/blogs or have any resources that speaks on what it’s like having/being both?

    we’d both really appreciate it!!

    i think there are a couple people here who have both but i dont remember off the top of my head, so if anyone wants to reblog or comment to help out anon please feel free! there is definitely a ton of symptom overlap, especially because they used to lump the two together as one thing and there were a bunch of studies done to prove that they were separate disorders and that autism did not inherently include things like anger and aggression and violent impulses but autistic people are and were so often abused that those abuse responses were thought to be the autism instead of recognized as their own separate situation

    #jack.speaks #anon#aspd#actually aspd #cluster b personality disorder
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  • renewed-outlook
    17.05.2022 - 7 hours ago

    Listen. I’m happy for you and all but I have cute outfits I want to show off and men to buy me drinks. Plus I make more pawns that way. Anyway, all those hobbies/fun things to do are boring

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  • cluster-b-culture-is
    17.05.2022 - 8 hours ago

    cluster b culture is kinning catra from she-ra and the princesses of power

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  • narcpup
    17.05.2022 - 9 hours ago

    hello! it's the suspecting npd anon who was here twenty minutes ago!

    do you have advice for how to stay attached to people?

    I have a long history of getting really attached and close to people, then getting bored of them and growing apart, often for little reason

    someone who I relied on for emotional support and validation and whom I considered a close friend (and vice versa) suddenly becomes exhausting to deal with, and I can't be around them all the time like I used to, and I hate it

    I finally found someone whom I've stayed close with for longer than usual, and I am so scared I'm going to leave and hurt them (they also suspect they have bpd and have significant fears of abandonment which doesn't really help at all)

    I really want to keep them in my life, they are such a good friend to me and I am doing my best to be a good friend to them (as far as they've told me it's working and I trust them)

    I've found that routinely seeing them in person helps a lot, and I have another friend whom I've been transparent about this with and they are good about staying in touch and we are on good terms as far as I know, even though I miss how close we were

    I intend to talk with them and my therapist about this, but I figured you would be a decent authority on the matter as well and it wouldn't hurt to ask

    thank you for your time!

    My apologies for my late answer, I’ll be honest I didn’t really plan on answering this because I didn’t know how to. I’m going to give it a go now and hope it’s worth your time.

    For a long time I just played around with the human experience. I’m watching a show now where the main character kissed someone just to see how they’d react and I realize I related a lot; often in the past I’d do things out of a desire to feel and act like neurotypicals do, but it was shallow and was more like a robot observing than a human partaking in life. I’m not saying this is the right thing to do, but it’s a common experience for those of us who are cut off from our emotions for long periods of time.

    If anything just… don’t pretend. Live your life to the fullest. When you love someone, love largely. Let yourself express every feeling you have. If the feeling changes, and you lose that love, be honest with them (kindly). Not every ending to a relationship has to be a tragedy and frankly I’m really glad to experience all the feelings I’ve had in the past good and bad because it’s led me to where I am today (very happy, for the record, without diving into my personal life too much I finally do feel more like a grown woman than a machine.) As for staying attached to people.. I don’t really know. I suppose I’m in therapy for the same thing. For myself I’ve identified patterns, I always lose feelings for someone after they’ve hurt me in some way. From that it spirals into numbness until I forget the feeling entirely. Communication helps a lot with this- my current best friend knows this exact mindset of mine and how I unconsciously isolate when I feel hurt, so we’re really good at talking it out almost as soon as something happens.

    tl;dr - don’t live with regrets. keep searching for the right people, maybe we’re not all permanent but we can definitely create beautiful moments together worth remembering later

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  • sickdelights
    17.05.2022 - 10 hours ago

    The worse thing about splitting is that once i hate someone i feel like an idiot for ever liking them in the first place because they are this horrible person and then once i'm back to idealizing and loving them again i feel guilty for ever thinking anything negative about them because they are literally perfect and this is a never ending cycle

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  • cluster-b-culture-is
    17.05.2022 - 11 hours ago

    cluster b culture is when your attention needs haven’t been met, so you’ve been physically exhausted all day

    double points if your regular attention source is busy

    #cluster b culture is #cluster b#npd#aspd#bpd#hpd#Mod Reef#anonymous#MOOD #and i'm ALREADY tired all day because of suspected chronic illness
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  • pandorasboxdiscourse
    17.05.2022 - 14 hours ago

    "Narc abuse"

    "My narcissistic parent/ex/etc"

    Shut up

    Genuinely just shut up

    You can talk about your abuse without throwing my disorder under the bus to do so.

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  • encyclopediatragica
    17.05.2022 - 14 hours ago

    tee hee the world turned me into a monster against my will

    #cluster b #yes i tagged something this but its funny and true enough to post
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  • cluster-b-culture-is
    17.05.2022 - 15 hours ago

    Cluster b culture is running your relationships to the ground because you dried up that dopamine well of codependency until you’re empty and back in survival mode.

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