#respect Tumblr posts

  • scrumptiousstrumpet
    26.05.2022 - 3 minutes ago

    No means no.

    People seem to be showing their true colors lately and that's fine. Save me the trouble from ever having to speak to you again. Please show me who you really are...someone who cannot take no for an answer. Someone who claims to respect consent but only when it means you're going to get off. Someone who, for whatever reason, has singled me out despite the umpteen dozen other people on the site.

    No means no. No, I'm not in the right headspace. No I'm going to bed soon. No I don't want to. No...because no. The moment the word no leaves me lips or appears on your screen that should be enough. I was nice and even said sorry but not tonight. Still you act like a child, throwing a temper tantrum because one random person said no? Someone who you've never taken the time to get to know aside from a cyber fuck? Christ it's no wonder you go there at all hours of the day and night trolling for cyber pussy.

    Oh wait...damn it...I forgot! You're acting like an asshole because us ladies just love when men act like assholes! Nothing gets our panties dripping wet like a man acting like a true spoiled brat asshole! Silly me! How could I forget!

    Still you're forgetting the most important thing. I said no...plain and simple. Thank you for removing your toxicness from my little world. Not that I didn't before but this cements that I am making the right decision. My intended is beyond respectful and I love him for it.

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  • eitiledaaa
    26.05.2022 - 11 minutes ago

    why are we letting the antiredacteds appropiate Kafka though

    #show Brod some fucking respect you fucking fucks
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  • not-madder-red
    26.05.2022 - 16 minutes ago
    #people on ao3 are based #i love you little fanfic shits #none that i remember for my moon knight fics tho #y’all are too busy thirsting in the comment section of marc spector x reader and steven grant x reader #i respect that #wait how could i forget khonshu x reader #if i want another proposal… should i just write porn??? #jake lockley x taweret here we come #haha come
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  • axetofall
    26.05.2022 - 19 minutes ago

    Microdosing hell by engaging in small talk

    #the mutual respect of two people pretending they didn’t go to the same highschool
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  • redsansgaster
    26.05.2022 - 34 minutes ago

    sorry this might get political

    I think, in america we need to dial back the age of politicians.

    Older folks tend to act like toddlers and take their anger and frustration out on others because they arent getting their way.

    What do you think is happening on capitol hill? Its a bunch of old fucks making our laws and making our choices.

    The proper age for any politician should be about 25 to 65. No more of these old and crusty dusty 80 year olds. Fucking hell. They are half way to death. Just Let young people run.

    Im so tired of seeing america just...crumble into the mess it is now because some old guys make our choices for us. :/ Let young people run from now on

    #politics #fuck old people #god damn #they dont deserve respect #so what#they aged #i dont give a flying fuck
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  • storyweaverofgondor
    26.05.2022 - 40 minutes ago

    Someone: I hate that George Lucas put Leia in that metal bikini! it’s so sexist!

    Me: . . . Yeah . . . that was kinda a point? It was to establish that Jabba wasn’t just a horrible criminal, but a slaver who viewed other species as playthings and trophies to be humiliated and killed at his slightest whim. He was so evil they couldn’t rescue Han without destroying him and even then Luke gave him every opportunity to just let them go. Leia killing Jabba with her chains has a lot of symbolism but is also a warning to those who demean and oppress that their victims will gladly use their own chains against their oppressors, so change your ways. There is also symbolism in the fact that later Leia is also given another outfit by the Ewoks later on. One being a gift she accepts willingly, the other being a curse she is forced into, both being outside her personal style.

    #Please no arguing or debates on this post #star wars#princess leia #The Empire Strikes Back #jabba the hutt #personal opinion #I don't want any debates or anything #I have just never agreed with other peoples interpretations of that scene #I understand where people are coming from when they say this and i respect it #I just think there was more to it then just 'put her in a sexy outfit
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  • startistdoodles
    26.05.2022 - 42 minutes ago

    Decendants au ask: would Emmet and Ingo go full mama bear mode to keep the girls safe??? Meanwhile Elesa makes sure they don't witness the apocalyptic ass beating taking place

    Oh absolutely, they care very deeply about family and will not hesitate to keep them safe!!

    I don't really imagine them as the kind to get physical, however the idea just makes me hysterical lmao xD

    #submas #subway boss ingo #gym leader elesa #subway boss emmet #descendant au#ask#my art#comedydoctor18 #that person must have done something pretty bad to get the beatdown lol #probably a team plasma grunt as the boys have no respect for them #*not canon to the au just some silliness
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  • shadowboxerinc
    26.05.2022 - 47 minutes ago

    Creative Close-Up from Hyperallergic

    Creative Close-Up from Hyperallergic

    5.25.22 Hello and good evening! In this special edition of this month’s Creative Close-Up we got some great articles from Hyperallergic, an art forum. Here are a few articles to read. Credit source: Hyperallergic Ukrainian Museum Documents the War Through Objects Left Behind Curators at the Maidan Museum in Kyiv are sifting through the rubble for items that “tell the story of ordinary…

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  • splicerthedicer
    26.05.2022 - 47 minutes ago

    I used to think, like, someday I'd get older and see things from a different perspective and be happier. But the new perspectives just made me angry.

    There are 40 year old men who make more money in a month than teachers do in a year by making videos """""reporting""""" on youtube drama and fucking memes. And twitch streamers, grown adults being payed to sit on their ass and play games for faceless 12 year olds. Influencers are literally payed to take a picture of themselves holding a product they don't even know anything about. There are grown ass adult animators making fun of 11 year old children by name in their videos and getting payed for it.

    This society is fucking diseased.

    #jerma is literally the only internet guy I respect at all and he's a performance artist
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  • ask-scott-lang-allthequestions
    26.05.2022 - 50 minutes ago

    *smiles sheepishly and shrugs*

    Whatever floats your boat, anon. I’m good with it. I appreciate the respect. Thanks.

    And hey, I mean, saving the world? Glad I could help make that happen.

    (Someone recognizes my contributions? Awesome!)

    Anon, you’re always welcome on my blog, okay? *gestures around the area* Safe space here.

    I’ve low-key adopted you now. I don’t care what age you are.

    #this anon is sweet and respectful I love it #asks#anon asks #ask scott lang #ant-man#scott lang #I’m gonna end up low key adopting all my anons #i can already tell #ant man#antman
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  • corvuscrowned
    26.05.2022 - 53 minutes ago

    28 & 32 PLZ <3

    PINKY HELLO!! i love you.

    28. How do you deal with writing pressure (ie: pressure to update, negative comments, deadlines, etc)?

    i love this question and feel ill equipped to answer it, bc the answer is: I Don't Know. i definitely have struggled with feeling pressured to produce in fandom, or to produce writing that i was really proud of and happy with every single time, or to produce writing that other people might really enjoy, and it all became way too much. this all came to a head for me a few months ago and i experienced a very profound fic burnout that was really not fun at all and had me considering leaving fandom. and ever since i've been on the other side of that, i find that i don't feel this same pressure, and i'm able to enjoy the process of writing a lot more and not think so much of outcomes/reception, because i've seen how bad it feels when it gets Real Bad and it's easier for me to prioritize preventing that. so it's hard to say, because i dont think "let the pressure escalate until it overflows and you realize that literally none of this matters except for what YOU get out of it" is a very universal or healthy way of dealing with pressure, but it was my personal somewhat strange process, and in ways i'm grateful it got as intense as it did because i can honestly say my relationship with fic is significantly healthier than i think it has ever been now.

    i think for me it's important to make sure that every single thing i write now is for me first. even if it's for a fest (which i have cut back on a lot to maintain this) -- even if it's for a gift -- it has to be for me first. because if i'm not enjoying what i write, then it just becomes work, and i have enough work with my like actual job.

    32. Copy and paste your top three favorite lines/jokes/sentences you’ve ever written. What fics do they come from?

    OH MAN OK i'm not sure if these are my all time favs but they're the ones that come to mind: Draco and Harry's first kiss in Buds Blooms and Beards:

    “Christ, Potter. Relax,” he says. He steps close, and Harry shivers when he places an open palm on his collarbone. Draco looks at him curiously as though Harry has suddenly sprouted antlers. Harry tries his best not to meet his intense gaze, but finds that his eyes fall down to his lips instead.

    “Alright then,” Draco says. “This is the part where I unfurl my secret homosexual tentacles and use them to suck your life force out through your ears. Have you brought yours along as well?”

    Draco trying to determine Harry's sexuality under the guise of herb preferences in Mise en Place:

    Draco rolls his eyes. “I can’t just ask,” he says. “That’s far too forward.” He runs a hand through his hair, suddenly vexed. “But then — some people seem like they like coriander, but they really like parsley. And sometimes you think you have someone completely pegged as a parsley fiend, but really they can’t get enough of coriander.”

    Harry pauses, taking in Draco’s apparent misery over the mere prospect of garnishes. Then he shrugs. “I like both.”

    And Harry's latest dad joke in Twelve Moons which i laughed too much at writing because i am a walking dad joke:

    “Sure,” Malfoy says. “It can be a trial run. We can find out whether we can actually interact without killing each other. I’ll even call you by your first name — Harry, was it?”

    “You’re a bright lad, Drago.”

    ty for the ask pinky!!

    send me a fanfic ask!

    #ask#long post #i have a lot of thoughts on fandom burnout #i think this is something we see a lot of in drarry bc it is a massive fandom with a lot of fests #and frankly i dont think its a good thing that so many of us end up finding ourselves where we do #i think it is preventable but i do think it requires a bit of a culture shift within this fandom #to make sure that we are not discussing fic as if it was a commodity #and to appreciate the time and energy that goes into creating it #and the rest that is required afteward #and to understand that not everyone can or wants to write at the same quantity #i think we need to continue supporting each other and reminding each other that we dont owe anything to fandom #we dont owe anything to each other but respect #and it's okay to take breaks #and when you feel burnout encroaching it is important not to try to push through it #and to continue checking in with yourself to make sure YOU are enjoying your time in fandom #bc that is the most important thing bar none
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  • frigidlord
    26.05.2022 - 1 hour ago

    ok, so, my two cents about the power topic (because it seems to come up often) is that respect goes both ways. it is absolutely frustrating when your powerful villain is not taken seriously and a heckler parade rides in to clown on them. it’s annoying at best, and godmodding at worst.

    but it is also annoying to have, say, a victim of said villain venting their frustrations only to be shot down by a dash com dogpile. and while I’ve never really played any superhero type, I imagine it’s just as annoying to imply they could never, ever be anything more than a splinter the Almighty Villain. 

    absolutely respect the mun’s work on a muse’s level of power, be them villain or hero. but please also understand that not everyone will cower before a muse’s might and that “don’t be an annoying clown” doesn’t mean “don’t ever criticize or challenge a powerful muse ever.”

    tl:dr: talk shit, get hit =/= no one is allowed to talk shit

    #this topic starts to border on shade/vague blogging really fast #so I'm popping in to say respect EVERYBODY not just villains and not just power
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  • cherryfinolahobbes
    26.05.2022 - 1 hour ago

    Paying Respects (closed rp)

    She could do this.

    She couldn't do this.

    She had to do this.

    It had taken nearly three long pulls of whatever Happy kept in his flask for Cherry to come down the stairs. Her old friend offering to take her elbow, to lead her to the family and she flinched away at the touch of his hand. She pulled back with the old sick nausea that plagued her years ago. She thought she'd never feel this way again.

    The look of shock, of concern on the older man's face nearly made her turn on heel on and go back into her room. This wasn't what she wanted. This was supposed to be for him...for Tony...for his family, for his wife and kid. She was making this worse with her stupid problems that wanted to come up at the worst times.

    "I'm...I.." She couldn't say the words fine. She couldn't lie. Her world was being torn apart at the seams and she was hoping the liquor that tasted like bitter ash and peanuts in her mouth would get her through the ceremony. " Please...please, I just want this over with, Happy," She begged. She wanted to be back in her room, to oscillate between numbness and blinding pain without being a burden on anyone else. She didn't want Pepper or god forbid Morgan to see her like this. They were grieving their father, their husband. They didn't need to pull Cherry out of her pit.

    "Cher-bear, it's okay...I know..." He swallowed hard, lines deepening around his eyes. "I know...come on...the other's are here...No one's going to bother you,"

    She wrapped her arms tight around her self as if she could insulate the pain that felt like it was leaking out of her body and followed Happy's lead. Nearly fifteen years she'd been with Tony and Pepper and Happy...and it they'd been the happiest she'd ever been...and now, it was all over.

    ***

    Wong was worried. He felt torn into two different halves, but he could only pay attention to one thing at a time. Stepping through the portal he'd summoned, dressed in somber black robes, he looked back at his newly resurrected friend.

    That.

    That was a whole can of worms he hadn't even touched yet. When had they had time? The battle of Thanos, the death of Stark...Cherry...

    He hadn't seen the young woman since the end of the battle. The blue eyed woman was no warrior, but she was bound to do what she could to help. No one could help Tony Stark though.

    Focus. One problem at a time.

    "Are you ready?" He asked Stephen, who seemed more interested in his cufflinks than the cabin in front of them by the lakeside. Wong blew a sigh out of his nose. "Stephen..."

    @ride-the-lightning-surge

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  • themakeupbrush
    26.05.2022 - 1 hour ago

    Priscilla Presley at the 2022 Cannes Film Festival

    #priscilla presley#cannes#cannes 2022 #im sure it's supposed to be a take on elvis #considering she's priscilla and it's the premiere #but it also looks like the world's fanciest pajamas #which i respect
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  • agatke
    26.05.2022 - 1 hour ago

    i need a ghillie suit

    #technically my roommate has one but like. one that requires diy foliage which i respect
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  • glitchdetail
    26.05.2022 - 1 hour ago
    𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖  𝐌𝐄  𝐁𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐄𝐑   .

    tagged  by: @galaxies-unknown

    1.    𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐀𝐒  /  𝐍𝐀𝐌𝐄:  Esme (she/her only, please)

    2.    𝐁𝐈𝐑𝐓𝐇𝐃𝐀𝐘: Aug 30

    3.    𝐙𝐎𝐃𝐈𝐀𝐂  𝐒𝐈𝐆𝐍:  Virgo

    4.    𝐇𝐄𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓:  [redacted] (that’s too much info)

    5.    𝐇𝐎𝐁𝐁𝐈𝐄𝐒:  RP, writing, Twine game making, sewing, drawing (traditional), painting (traditional), cooking (amateur)

    6.    𝐅𝐀𝐕𝐎𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐄  𝐂𝐎𝐋𝐎𝐑:  Midnight (almost black) blue (and yet somehow I’m the purple chick...)

    7.    𝐅𝐀𝐕𝐎𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐄  𝐁𝐎𝐎𝐊:  Between books right now, but an old favorite is Amazing Gracie

    8.    𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐓  𝐒𝐎𝐍𝐆: Pearl - Kooza

    9.    𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐓  𝐌𝐎𝐕𝐈𝐄  /  𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐖:  Tbh I don’t watch so many shows now as I do absorb them through the dash. Last film was Cinderella (1997). Again.

    10.    𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐄𝐍𝐓  𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃: Currently participating in Dracula Daily

    11.    𝐈𝐍𝐒𝐏𝐈𝐑𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍: Fucking everything. Books, music, plays, musicals, stage shows, art, book covers - so much of my shit is just me going “oh that’s a cool idea, lemme just hyperfixate for a hot minute and never write any of these ideas down”

    12.    𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐑𝐘  𝐁𝐄𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐃  𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑  𝐔𝐑𝐋: quote from an episode of TFA, easy to remember and not hard to spell. Simple.

    13.   𝐅𝐔𝐍  𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: I have a weird aversion to popular ‘canon’ ships for their own sake, so if you wanna ship with me, bring crossovers, obscure characters, and OCs. From there we’ll see if their shared vibes pass the vibe check. 

    𝐏𝐄𝐎𝐏𝐋𝐄  𝐈'𝐃  𝐋𝐈𝐊𝐄  𝐓𝐎  𝐆𝐄𝐓  𝐓𝐎  𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖 𝐁𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐄𝐑  .​

    Look, I follow twelve people here from my main. If you’re seeing this and you haven’t done it, you’re it.

    #I'm serious about only being called she/her btw #I 100% support and believe in respecting somebody's pronouns including neopronouns #but it's GOTTA go both ways #I don't like being called they/them and this is a hard boundary #please respect that and we'll be chill
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  • vindictes
    26.05.2022 - 1 hour ago
    also all of us who have immortal team leader verses should come together for an ultimate ‘begrudgingly ruling the multiverse together bc they’re all super powerful’ bastard verse.
    #《 ooc. 》 #kjsdjkJKFSDFJS #rainbow rocket but named better #ultimate bad end verse #everything is bad #they're all horrible and knife emoji at each other #everyone pops into a meeting from a different wormhole of an universe they've turned into their respective end goal
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  • sysboxes
    25.05.2022 - 1 hour ago

    i am going to say this again: if you are non-traumagenic or pro-non-traumagenic systems, do not use our userboxes.

    this blog was made specifically for people who are anti-endo traumagenic systems (and currently accepts those who remain neutral on syscourse). there are so many pro-endo blogs to go to for userboxes if you are, use those instead.

    we do not want you interacting, and in every single userbox post, we include the tags #anti-endo and #endos dni so that there is as little confusion as possible.

    respect our dni and our boundaries, please and thank you.

    #btw any hate sent in will be automatically deleted #i am asking for basic respect #please #making this after finding another non-traumagenic/pro-endo system reblogging our boxes #ok to rb so people know #please don’t add on though
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  • springmagpies
    25.05.2022 - 1 hour ago

    Just watched the episode of This is Us where Kevin and Sophie finally get back together and can I just say Pearson men are My Type™️!

    #and they should be yours #hot as hell #respectful as hell #hopeless romantics#softies#dorks #and they love their wives with their entire beings #can I pretty please have a jack Pearson #or a Kevin Pearson #or a Randall Pearson #because those guys are the it guys for me full stop #this is us
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  • snowshinobi
    25.05.2022 - 1 hour ago

    the thing about being nice is you have to sit there and listen to ppl say utter bullshit. true, most times you ultimately win out by holding it together and letting hypocrites hang themselves but FUCK i just CANNOT let these ppl sit on their high horse thinking they're so lofty and noble as they trample people I care about. I'm biting their ankles I'm pulling them down with me I'm tearing their eyeballs clean out of their skulls and forcing them to LOOK to FEEL

    #graphic#snowswords #my anger is my strongest vice and my greatest victory. it's best used in service of others #friends I'm angry on behalf of. motivation to finish frustrating projects. donating what i can to causes that matter out of pure spite #it may not be healthy but it's a natural source of energy so I'd better use it well #and um. keep track of it. bc it gets outta hand #and by far the worst thing my anger leaps at is petty arguments with people who don't respect me or my positions #such a waste of time. save it for the ppl/convos that have a chance of going somewhere #mmmmmh #also: posts that are about Rengoku but it's subtle #by which i mean: kyojuro how do you do it. how do you keep from biting everyone immediately #if it were me sanemi would be lunch meat by now #snowfire
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